In this article, the authors intend to bring to the reader's attention the negative impact men's maladaptive dependency traits can have on their lives and methods by which these traits can be addressed in treatment. A review of the literature about dependence, dependency traits and dependent personality disorder is presented including the influence of early childhood experiences, gender differences, comorbidity with Axis I disorders, and assessment and treatment. Several clinical case examples highlighting the subtle expression of dependency traits in men are presented and discussed.